Hi everyone. I'm here because my husband has a drink problem. We have 2 young children including one who has extra needs due to neurodivergence. Parenting with a partner who is either stressed and moody or drunk and silly is getting harder as time goes by. I feel like we're in a perpetual state of waiting for things to magically get easier so we can plan a life we want... but somehow that time never comes, and here we are with no clear goal of how we want our life to be, or plan for how to go about doing more than getting through each week. I know I can't make him change. He knows he has a problem but can't or won't do anything to get help. How do we break out of this suffocating stasis? Feeling so sad and defeated today, but hopeful that others might relate to my experience and have some insight.